Ok, So you Want to have Anal Sex
with a Girl, But Either Dont know what to do, or Dont know how
to get her to let you do it. Here are some Tips to keep in mind
when trying to have Anal sex with a Girl that has never had it
before and she is reluctant cause she feels it is painful.
Some girls may have expirienced bad Anal sex in the past from
Guys that Didnt know what they were doing and Used crico and
Jammed thier hard Cock into thier tight Virgin Asshole. For any
guy that thinks this is the way to Anal Sex, My advice is Try
it on Yourself first. Get the Crisco and Jam a Huge Hard Object
in your ass and youll know how it feels.
First off you must get her comfortable with the idea of having
Anal Sex. It May be hard or easy depending on the girl. Ill get
more into this later.
Anal Sex can be VERY pleasurable to a Man or Woman IF done properly
and with patients.
1. Start off with Something Small like a Finger or even better
a small Butt Plug, Work it in SLOWLY and use a waterbase Lubricant
like astroglide. (not criso or butter from the cabinet). If you
start with something too big, or go too fast, It will hurt and
she will tell you to stop and No anal sex for you. Fingers may
hurt. some women complain they dont like fingers, So use the
Small Buttplug Instead. I recommend the Small Buttplug. Even
expirienced Anal Sex Lovers will say fingers can hurt.
2. As you are doing this Check her
comfort level by asking her how it feels, Enjoy watching it slowly
go in and out of her asshole. SLOWLY. After a good 5-10 minutes
of this you may want to go to something "A little"
larger than the small butt plug or maybe just wait till the next
time. Again Slowly push it in and pay attention to her reactions.
Remember one slip up may cause her to say fuck this we arent
Anal Sex and Patience goes good together.
3. If you really want to do a Great Job at exploring Anal, Do
it on yourself first and you will know how it feels. You too
can Enjoy anal even if your a Guy. And NO it doesnt mean your
4. Have your GF Slowly Stick a finger in your Asshole and feel
around for your Prostate, this is Wonderful when getting head.
Or have her Stick a Vibrating Egg in your Ass and turn it on
right before you Cum while she is giving you head. This way when
you do it to her, You will have a better sense of what might
hurt or even feel good. remember though Women dont have a prostate.
Most of the pleasure comes from nerve endings around the Anus.
So thats a good place to be Licking.
5. Be Clean and Be Safe. Make sure you use condoms at ALL TIMES.
Even if its your True love. Bactaria in your Cock can really
cause some bad VD. So Make sure the anus is Clean and then you
can proceed with Licking her Asshole. If you are going to stick
something in it at least lick it. This will get her relaxed and
more open to Anal play. Always use Mouthwash afterwards even
if its nice and tasty. Even if its Courtney Thorne Smith, Use
Mouthwash Afterwards for saftey.
OK, So by now you have gotten her to let you use a small butt
plug or Finger in her Asshole. Now its time to step it up. Before
you grab that Bigger one or jam your hard cock up there. Makes
ure you use the Small butt plug again to loosen the Anal Muscle.
SLOWLY. Pain is good in moderation. and anal sex can be painful
or uncomfortable if done wrong. (which may totally blow it).
After about 5 minutes try a slightly Bigger one and see how she
does with that. After a few Nights of Slow Anal preperation you
will soon be able to get your cock up there. Make sure you wash
your Toys or you can even put condoms on them to keep them clean.
If you have a Huge Cock then anal may take a little longer, and
keep in mind that you may want something that really hurts her,
If your Too big than you may not be able to have anal sex, but
this doesnt mean you cant use toys on her. You can even use a
small toy in her ass while you fuck her pussy.
Use More Toys to get her ready, Use the Plugs or Small Dildos
you used the nights before and get her hole dialated a but. After
her Asshole has had a few expiriences with some Toys and is used
to haveing something up there, You may start the process of Getting
the head of your cock in. Do not just cram it in there, It will
hurt and ruin the whole experience for her. Start slow and just
push the head in. watch her reactions and then slowly push in
a little more. Once you get it in, (sometimes you wont be ableto
push it all the way in depending on the size of your cock.) Stay
Still and reach under and stimulate her Pussy.
You want her nuerotransmitters to incorporate Anal Sex = Joy
and Orgasms. Infact Pumping your cock in and out like fucking
pussy is bad for the first time. It will hurt and she will tell
you it hurts take it out. Stay still for a few moments, Let her
Asshole Adjust to your cock. After this Move it VERY slowly,
DO NOT PUMP. You may have to do anal like this a few times before
you get to actually start fucking it at a medium pace.
Well there you have it a 3 Day tutorial on Anal Sex.
If your having trouble convincing her, or she has had a bad experience
in the past here are some coniving tips.
1. Lick her Asshole, it will get
her used to having her Asshole involved in a sexual activity.
Dont be a fucking wussy.
2. During Vaginal Doggy Style Sex, gently massage her asshole
with your thumb. DO NOT stick it in, if it hurts her she will
not be comfortable with the idea of Anal Sex. or you may stick
the very tip of your pinky in as a tester to get a reaction.
I have small pinky fingers, If yours are large I would suggest
not doing the pinky idea. But there are ways you can test her
comfort with anal sex by either
A. Licking her Asshole, or
B. Slowly inserting JUST THE TIP of you pinky finger and see
how she responds.
If she says and does nothing see how long she will let you do
it. If you plan on pushing in further than the tip (a Daring
move) use lube or else it will hurt her and she will tell you
to fuck yourself. If you get something like "What the hell
are you doing?" this is not a good sign stop the Anal immediatly
and try another time. who knows you may even get a few oohs an
ahhs from it.
3. Get her comfortable with the idea of Anal Sex by explaining
to her that you are going to start with something very small
and go very slow and if it hurts you will stop. You could even
Show her this page.
4. Have her do Anal sex with you First, Use a Small Butt Plug
or Vibrator. Some women Love this idea and it is POWERFUL LEVERAGE
for you. If You let her try it on you its only fair that You
get to try it on her,
Here are some other activities and safety tips for Anal Exploration.
Never Take your cock or toung out of her asshole and put it in
her or someone elses Pussy, Bacteria from her Asshole going into
her Pussy can cause a serious infection. Unless you switch the
Condom. You can Also use Toung Condoms if your a Total Wuss or
you feel she may be a total whore with Aids or other VD and you
need to use protection. If i think this about a Girl i wont even
go down on her pussy let alone her asshole with or without toung
barriers. Fuck it why bother if im not going to enjoy it?
If she has good Hygene, show her how much you care by Licking
her Asshole. Like 2pac says its time for us to be good to our
women and love our women.
Have her Lay face Down and open her cheeks and slowly Lick the
inner cheeks and soft bites on the inside of her asscheeks. The
make you way to her Hole. Take a chance in life for christs sake.
Most guys will only like a girls asshole if they are totally
in love or if they are just a pervert like me. I love Licking
Girls Assholes. They all taste different, and the women LOVE
Have her Sit on your face and bury your toung up her Asshole
while she Jerks you off or if you can manage Give you head. Also
dont forget she can still use the vibrating egg on you too in
this manner. right before you are about to cum have her turn
it on and Blast a load like you never have before.
Do All this Stuff at your own Risk. I am not responsible if you
try Anal Sex and hurt yourself or someone else. Also Do Not
try or force someone to have Anal Sex if they Problems with
thier Anus, Such as Colon Cancer or Hemroids or they just dont
want to. However you can Still Lick it. ; )